Thursday, August 28, 2014

Are men scared of Pilates



Are Men Afraid Of Pilates?

written by a man:

Most men love sports, which requires strength, flexibility, stability and balance—
so why aren’t more men flocking to Pilates studios? It’s been 17 years since I began 
teaching Pilates and 10 years since I opened my own studio, and during that time only 
one thing’s been missing: men. I’ve taught Pilates to men, including a few professional 
athletes, however, I think many studio owners will agree that women vastly outnumber 
men as clients.

Until recently, Pilates was a well-kept secret among professional athletes. I recently 
taught two high school kids who were enthusiastic about taking Pilates because 
they learned that many NFL players are required to use it (using the Reformer, 
which I believe makes the workout safer and more effective) as part of their workout 
routine.

So if macho men who are paid millions to play football can do Pilates, I wonder…
Why aren’t more men taking advantage of this exercise? Do they acquaint Pilates 
with ballet or do they consider it too “feminine?” Do they hear that it strengthens 
their core and increases flexibility and think, I’ve got a six pack and who wants to 
be flexible? Has our industry done a poor job of communicating the significant 
benefits of the exercises created by Joseph Pilates?

I was once a skeptic as well. When I was in my early 20s, I lived in Miami where 
I taught kickboxing, weight training and gymnastics. Needless to say, I thought 
I was in great shape. A friend of mine who was a ballet dancer was taking Pilates 
classes. I watched a class and thought, that’s for girls—it’s a little stretching thing. 
My friend convinced me to take a class and you know the rest of the story: that class 
kicked my butt! I fell in love with the Pilates exercises that provided strength and flexibility, 
along with balance, joint stability and body awareness.

I began taking classes while still nursing a nagging back injury and little by little, 
the injury went away. I began studying for certifications and along the way got into 
the best shape of my life. Pilates has changed my body physically, and has changed 
my life mentally and spiritually, and I want to share that with everyone…from children 
to adults, to men and women, to professional athletes or office desk jockeys.

So how can a regular Pilates class benefit any man? Well, to begin with, it’s one of 
the best ways I know to improve your physique or your game, whether it’s hockey, 
basketball, baseball, running, golf or cycling. Among my former clients are an 
Olympic skier, two tennis playing sisters of international fame, and probably the 
world’s best-known golfer. He knew Pilates would increase his flexibility and range 
of motion and help prevent injuries during a long pro tour—and the results have 
made sports history time and again.

Like all Pilates instructors know, this golfer realized that most pain and injuries are the 
result of muscle imbalance and a lack of flexibility. For example, too often men train their 
upper bodies, and that creates muscle imbalance and misalignment, which can lead to 
injury. Pilates is one of the best methods I know of for preventing balancing muscles, 
aligning the body and preventing injury. For that reason alone, men should be running 
to their nearest Pilates studio. I’ve trained NBA players because they knew that 
stabilizing their hip and knee joints is critical to their performance on the court, 
not to mention the increased range of motion they experienced.

In our studio, we can train clients for a specific sport, however, by following the Pilates principles of moving with stability to engage the appropriate muscles, enhance body awareness, strengthen the core and increase balance and agility, we engage the 
entire body from the head to the tips of the toes.

The men I work with say Pilates is without exception the best exercise they’ve 
ever done. When they first experience it, they are surprised it is so challenging, 
and how good they feel after the workout. For example, one of my clients, a former 
baseball player, was so stiff he could not put on his shoes and socks without difficulty 
and discomfort. After just five sessions, he was able to bend over with no discomfort 
and slept without pain for the first time in 10 years.

In fact, many of the men I work with come to me as a last resort before surgery, 
but if they were coming in during their athletic years, they might be able to prevent 
the injuries that lead to pain and surgery. I’m glad to see that Pilates is finally being 
recognized in the rehabilitation field. For so long, most doctors trying to help people 
recover from their injuries didn’t have much body awareness themselves.

If you are a man who is looking for a full-body workout that’s going to build more 
muscle fiber and strength while increasing your flexibility, mobility, joint stability and 
the ability to move with ease in every range of motion, I encourage you to be 
open-minded and give Pilates a try. Try different studios and different styles until 
you find the right fit.

Go into it with no expectations and you might be pleasantly surprised. When you look 
for a Pilates instructor, check out their background and ask questions. Make sure they 
hold a national certification for Pilates, and find out how long they have been teaching. 
Once you give Pilates a try, I believe that like most of my clients, you might just find 
yourself hooked on this not-for-women-only exercise philosophy.


by: Ariel Hernandez

Ariel is the owner and director of Fusion Fitness USA Pilates. Born in South Miami 
Beach, Florida, Ariel has been in the fitness industry for over 25 years. As soon as he 
was old enough, Ariel became a personal trainer and within 2 years he was running the personal training and aerobic dance programs of several gyms in Miami. With experience 
in dance and gymnastics and over 10 years tenure as a PHI Master Pilates Teacher, 
Ariel has expanded his certifications and training methods to include all forms of 
corrective modalities. Ariel is a PMA certified Pilates Teacher.



Build your Bones and a Better Future



Build your Bones and a Better Future


Many of us in the under-50 age range think about bone health as a concern for our 
grandmothers or our mothers, but rarely for ourselves. I did too, until I was 
diagnosed with osteoporosis in my late 20s.

Its more common now that young women are discovering that they have 
vitamin D deficiencies and other health concerns that can lead to low bone mass 
at an early age.

Moreover, bone loss begins in our mid-30s, clearly marking bone health as an issue 
not unique to an older population!

So what can we do to halt bone loss, prevent osteoporosis, and avoid the devastating 
falls and potential fractures that occur especially later in life? Take action now!

Here’s your plan:

Educate yourself on matters of bone health (you’re already starting!).

Ensure you get the proper bone mineralization from food and supplementation. 
More than just calcium and Vitamin D, your body needs a host of other vitamins 
and minerals including vitamin K, B and C as well as magnesium, manganese, 
boron, copper, zinc and silicon – most of which you can obtain from food! 
(Our inhouse Doctor Sanien de Beer, who is a Nutritionist, can also assist and consult 
with you on this.)

Minimize bone-depleting foods that are high in sugar (as well as all colas – even the 
diet ones!) and reduce consumption of animal protein. Acidifying foods foster an 
environment in the body for bone breakdown, leeching calcium from your bones. 
--- we all know that Sugar is a culprit for many things.

Increase critical weight-bearing, resistance and impact exercise. Bone is living 
tissue and responds to the demands of these types of exercise by fortifying itself. – 
You can increase your classes at i.move…or chat to me, Jeanne, directly and I 
would gladly consult with you.

Practice good posture and alignment. When your skeleton is aligned you 
faciliate bone strengthening. You also improve muscle function which is essential 
to good bone health and better balance. (Pilates & Yoga)

Improve your balance skills. Falls are a major cause of fractures and most falls are 
preventable by improving balance and reflexes. Think hips, feet, trunk, shoulders – 
it all comes into play. (All i.move classes)

Reduce stress.  High levels of the stress hormone cortisol are known to weaken 
the bones.  Depression has also been linked with low bone density. So find something 
every day to lighten your spirits!

Spread the word to inform others on the importance of bone safety. Most people 
aren’t aware of these simple acts that can, literally, make a world of difference.

Tell your loved ones, your clients, and your community why and how we need to 
protect our bones for life. Share this article and these simple steps and empower 
those around you for a better future of stronger skeletons!

Monthly we also have an Osteoporosis test available to you. Chat to Kim about the 
next upcoming appointment if you would like to make a booking management@mayfairwellness.co.za
.

May this serve as a motivator and for some of you as a confirmation that what you 
are doing is serving your body ; ).

Warm regards Jeanne




HypnoBirthing


HypnoBirthing is as much a philosophy of birthing as it is techniques.
When a mother and her birth companion are able to approach their birth without fear
and with knowledge, good support, and tools for the birth – then their birthing can be
positive and empowering experience. Using relaxation techniques that allow you
to use your natural birthing instincts, HypnoBirthing can help you achieve an easier,
faster and more comfortable birth without unnecessary intervention.

The ‘Hypno’ part of HypnoBirthing refers to the deep relaxation, visualisation and
self hypnosis techniques that we use during the program to release fears and
condition ourselves to release endorphins at times during our birth. With the help of hypnotherapy, the birth of your baby can be a more calm and relaxed
experience. 
One where you are in the drivers seat, rather than feeling like a passenger. This is
likely to reduce the need for interventions during your birthing.HypnoBirthing allows
you to remove unnecessary fear, 
and where there is no fear, there is no tension, allowing your body to function as it
is perfectly designed to do in childbirth. The course is a comprehensive antenatal 
programme and birth preparation method. Classes are held in small groups of no
more than five couples and run over a five-week period.
Topics include:
  • Working to eliminate fear from the body in preparation for the birth day
  • Support and coping strategies for normal, physiological birth
  • Relaxation, breathing, visualization and deepening techniques to aid comfortable birthing
  • How to support your labouring partner and help her to remain relaxed
  • Working with care providers to ensure everyone is on the same page
  • Stages of labour, birthing
  • Bonding with your baby
  • Natural ways to avoid intervention and induction,as well as ways to bring about labour
HypnoBirthing is also suitable for cesarean birth and can help to ensure the birth is 
as calm and gentle as possible. 

Benefits of HypnoBirthing:
  • Shorter labours
  • Reduced need for pain relief
  • Quicker recovery after birth
  • Birth companions are more involved
  • Calmer babies that sleep better
  • Assists bonding within the family unit
  • Less chance of developing post-natal depression
  • The programme assists in step-by-step preparation for the birth, and informs parents of their options in the birth process

Going Chinese Fun-D-Raiser



G o i n g  C h i n e s e . .
Saturday 16th August saw the 2nd fundraiser here at Mayfair. An evening of fun, with a distinctive Chinese flavour. Not to mention the 'lucky packets' with an array of strange and interesting snacks. Le Petit Four and Lezanne, the newest additions to Mayfair supplied an array of sumptious platters. Basic Stock and Marissa, once again warmed bellies and hearts with divine gluhwein.

The festivities were a blend of...a brief demonstration of Swimming Dragon Tai Chi, a combination of a raffle, games involving chopsticks, rice, transferable tattoos and the most entertaining of all...Beijing Bingo. Compered by Nicola, this had everyone absolutely rivetted.
Lesley and dedicated students gave a traditional Tai Chi form
demonstration which flowed into Nicola's dramatic dance inspired by the martial arts, Tai Chi, Yoga and contemporary dance. A unique composition symbolic of the Phoenix and choreographed by Nicola...left an enchanted audience.
A quiz on Chinese culture ended the games.

And...last and definetly not least, Gangam style! Taught by Nicola to all guests.

Prize giving. The best dressed (as everyone was in costume) went to Zunia Boucher-Myers. Gangam style dance pro was Mariamne Wulfson. Sue Gartlan won the raffle. There were some ties, which were played out and off with extra hilarity.

A big thank you to all who supported the event. All who donated time, snacks, drinks and services. And,as always to Jeanne.

Lesley and Nicola will be leaving for China on the 8th September. It is an intensive Tai Chi study tour, beginning in Beijing and visiting Tiananmen Square, the Imperial Palace, the Forbidden City and the Temple of Heaven. The Tongrentang Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine is on the itinerary. And, the Great Wall. A full day, at the invitation of the Chinese Health Qi Gong Association will be spent training and studying. Handan, the birthplace of Yang style Tai Chi (which is what is taught at i.move) will be visited. The birthplace of Chen style Tai Chi (the oldest form of Tai Chi) is next and finally Dengfeng, home of the Shaolin Temple, where Shaolin Kung Fu come from. The tour will finish in Shanghai and Nicola and Lesley will be back teaching from the 25th September.

A deep and heartfelt thank you from Lesley. 'Seeing this dream becoming real is absolutely
magical...and being able to share it, even more so. Tai Chi permeates every part of my life
and to take my practice and teaching to another level...what more could I wish for?'







Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Le Petit Four



Le Petit Four OPENING SOON!!!!!

As of the 25th of August, the Le Petit Four team looks forward to welcoming you with open arms.  Come and enjoy our lovely new space with an awesome cup of coffee, a delectable slice of cake or a hearty plate of food. Print out the coupon below and receive a free coffee.




Ladies Day Event


The ladies at Fine & Country attended a Ladies day at the Lord Charles in August - Celebrating Woman's Month.

Kelly said"Thank you STBB for our awesome prizes at the successful Womans Day and high tea at the Lord Charles lead by inspirational speaker Alison Botha; "Inspired to believe in the strength within each one of us to overcome obstacles in our own life’s journeys"






September... Spring and living according to the seasons

September...Spring and living according to the Seasons
The Yellow Emperor, Huang Di, on his discourse on the ‘Art of Life Through the Four Seasons’ talks about the season of Spring…
The three months of Spring are about revitalization in nature. A time of birth...when heaven and earth are reborn. During Spring it is advisable to retire early and equally to arise early. Go for an early morning walk to absorb the the fresh and invigorating energy. This is the season during which the universal energy begins anew and rejuvenates. We should attempt to correspond to this energy directly by being open, receptive and unsuppressed. Physically, mentally and emotionally.
Physically, we can begin exercising more frequently again. We should wear loose-fitting and comfortable clothing, so that our bodies can breathe and we can rid ourselves of toxins through the pores. Tight fitting exercise wear may cause toxins to be re-absorbed. It is a time for stretching and lengthening...to loosen up both the tendons and muscles.
Emotionally, it is a time to develop equanimity. Spring is the season related to the liver. Indulgence in anger, frustration, depression, sadness or any excess of emotion injures the liver and the liver qi. Violating the natural order of Spring can cause cold disease, illness inflicted by atmospheric cold, during the course of the next season
This excerpt dates back to the third millenium BC. In ancient China people lived with a greater knowledge of and connection to the natural world. Life was simpler and less filled with conflict or separation from nature and each other. In modern times our lives are filled to the brim with things, stuff, technology and being busy. As we move forward, more and more people are becoming interested in the ancient ways and finding a sense of balance in our very busy lives. Living simply and connecting to nature, the seasons and each other.
Quotations from the The Neijing Suwen, translated by Maoshing Ni, PH.D

i.move - September Specials




SEPTEMBER ONLY

FREE INTRODUCTORY PILATES
FREE - Introduction to Pilates every Monday 17:30
– commit to a course of 4 classes

REFORM YOUR BODY
@ HALF the PRICE
HALF Price - Private One on One Pilates EQUIPMENT classes – 12 sessions @R1680  
** PLUS unlimited group classes valued at R750 FREE **

IN-SANITY CAMP
Summer ready your body with cardio & strength training PLUS alignment training work R690 (usually R1080)
** PLUS unlimited group classes valued at R750 FREE **

Contact: 021 851 7037 • info@mayfairwellness.co.za, Mayfair Wellness, 2 Bright Street, Somerset West




The Fairy Godmother


The Fairy Godmother will be hosting a Talk at Mayfair Wellness

Saturday the 6th of September 2014 

15:00 - 16:00


Here is a little bit more information about Donna McCallum aka The Fairy Godmother.

Over the past eight years Donna has helped over 10 000 people get clear on their Dreams, Goals and Vision for their lives and has helped and supported them to make it happen. Her talks, workshops, retreats, online programs, books and community have aided people in shifting and transforming themselves and living lives they love. Donna has done workshops in South Africa, the UK, Germany and the USA and has people from 15 countries doing her programmes.

Due to her success in helping people with their dreams, their finances, starting businesses, overcoming their fears and moving into self - love, she has become a regular media expert. Donna has two regular weekly radio appearances on Radio 2000 and East Coast radio and featured every month month on a host of radio stations, TV programmes and magazines articles.